the way i...and with simon as a couple...conduct ourselves and our lives is good enough...we aren't failing in any way...we have a fantastic standard of life...we have the inner strength personally and the strength of our marriage to get us through the difficult times...

we will make mistakes...and life will be tough and it will be hard to find our way but there's no reason at all why we wont succeed and make our dreams a reality...

the way i live my life and the choices i make day to day aren't wrong...i dont intentionally try to hurt people or myself and when i do i can forgive myself...